Who Inherits Your Estate?
By Adrianna Mihalek, Associate Attorney and Thomas Brosnihan, Law Clerk

Most people understand that having a Will is important. What many do not understand, however, is what happens when a New York resident dies without one. When a person dies without a valid Will, they are considered to have died intestate, and the distribution of their estate is governed not by their wishes, but by New York’s Estates, Powers and Trusts Law (EPTL).
For many families, the outcome can be unexpected and, in some cases, profoundly disruptive. Our experienced Wills and estate planning attorneys are here to help you understand your options, protect your wishes, and provide peace of mind for you and your loved ones.
New York’s Intestacy Laws Control
Contrary to popular belief, dying without a Will does not mean that all assets automatically pass to a surviving spouse, nor does it mean that the State of New York immediately acquires the decedent’s property. Instead, New York EPTL establishes a strict order of inheritance that determines which surviving relatives are entitled to receive the assets and in what proportions.
In any intestate estate, one of the Court’s primary responsibilities is confirming who survived the decedent and identifying all individuals entitled to inherit from the estate. This process often requires extensive documentation, family history research, and, in some cases, the assistance of a professional genealogist to establish the decedent’s family tree and confirm the rights of potential heirs.
Who Inherits Under New York Intestacy Laws?
New York EPTL § 4-1.1 sets out a specific order of inheritance for people who die intestate. Generally:
If You Have a Surviving Spouse:
- If you are survived by a spouse and no children – your spouse inherits the entire estate.
- If you are survived by both a spouse AND children your spouse receives the first $50,000.00 of the estate, plus one-half (1/2) of the remaining balance. Your children will inherit the remaining one-half (1/2). Therefore, if you have surviving children, your spouse does NOT automatically inherit the entirety of your estate.
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- It is important to note that NY EPTL recognizes “children” as those that are biologically or legally adopted. Stepchildren are NOT considered “children” and therefore will not inherit from your estate.
- It is further important to note that if your child is under the age of eighteen (18), the Court will appoint a Guardian Ad Litem (GAL) to protect and represent the their interest during the court process. The GAL is usually a private practice attorney appointed by the Court, and your Estate will be responsible for paying the GAL’s fees.
If You Do Not Have a Surviving Spouse:
- Children: If you do not have a spouse and are survived by your children, then your children inherit your estate.
- If one of your children predeceased you, that child’s descendants (your grandchildren) would inherit your pre-deceased child’s share of your estate.
- As with any beneficiary under the age of eighteen (18), the Court will appoint a GAL if your grandchild is a minor at the time of the proceedings.
- No Children, but Parents: If you do not have children, then your parents are entitled to inherit your estate in equal shares.
- If only one parent survives you, they will inherit your whole estate.
- It is further important to note that if your parent, or any adult beneficiary of your estate, is incompetent or suffering from an intellectual or developmental disability, the Court will also appoint a Guardian Ad Litem (GAL) to protect and represent the disabled beneficiaries interest during the court process. As mentioned above, the GAL is usually a private practice attorney appointed by the Court, and your Estate will be responsible for paying the GAL’s fees.
- No Parents, but Siblings: If you do not have children or parents that survive you, then your siblings will inherit your estate.
- If one of your siblings predeceased you, that sibling’s descendants (your niece/nephew) would inherit your pre-deceased siblings share of your estate.
- As with any beneficiary under the age of eighteen (18), the Court will appoint a GAL if your niece/nephew is a minor at the time of the proceedings.
- No Siblings, but Grandparents: If you do not have children, parents, or siblings that survive you, your estate will pass one-half (1/2) to your maternal grandparents and one-half (1/2) to your paternal grandparents.
- If only one grandparent survives you, they will inherit your whole estate.
- No Grandparents:
- If your grandparents pre-deceased you (which is typically the case), your estate will pass to the descendants of your grandparents – namely: your aunts and uncles.
- No Aunts/Uncles: If you do not have aunts or uncles living, your estate will pass to the descendants of your aunts and uncles – namely: your first cousins.
- No First Cousins: If you do not have any first cousins living, your estate will pass to the descendants of your first cousins – namely: your first cousins once removed.
- If you do not have any first cousins once removed living at the time of your passing, your estate would be inherited by their descendants, and so on and so forth.
- No Living Relatives: Only in the extremely rare circumstances that no eligible heirs, as described above, are living does an estate ultimately pass to NY State.
As mentioned earlier, the Court requires reliable proof of who survived the decedent and who predeceased them. To satisfy these requirements, it is often necessary to engage a genealogist to research and document family relationships. This process can result in significant additional expense to the estate, reducing the assets ultimately available for distribution to heirs.
Unmarried Partners Have No Automatic Inheritance Rights
One of the harshest consequences of intestacy arises in the context of unmarried couples.
Regardless of the length of the relationship, NY EPTL does not provide inheritance rights to a boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancé, or domestic partner solely based on the relationship itself. Unless assets were jointly owned or beneficiary designations are in place, an unmarried partner will receive nothing from an intestate estate.
For many families, this result is entirely inconsistent with the decedent’s actual intentions. This can be devastating to a surviving partner, who may have shared a home and a life with the decedent for years or even decades, yet has no legal right to any part of the estate.
Does my Estate still go through Probate Court?
Yes. When someone dies without a Will, an Administration Proceeding must be filed and approved in the Surrogate’s Court of the county where the decedent lived before gaining legal authority to the decedent’s assets. When a person dies with a Will, the Will usually names an Executor to handle the estate. Without a Will, there is no Executor, and the Court must appoint an Administrator to assume that role.
The administrator’s responsibilities include but are not limited to:
- Identifying and notifying the decedent’s heirs, according to EPTL;
- Locating, collecting and protecting estate assets;
- Paying debts and taxes;
- Distributing assets to heirs according to NY law mentioned above; and
- Filing the necessary court documents and reports.
Who is the ‘Administrator’ of the Estate?
Similar to NY EPTL’s intestacy laws governing inheritance, the law also prescribes who has priority to serve as Administrator of the estate. The order of priority to serve as Administrator is as follows:
- Surviving spouse;
- Adult biological children or adopted children;
- Adult Grandchildren;
- Parents;
- Siblings;
- Grandparents;
- Aunts/Uncles;
- First Cousins;
- First Cousins Once Removed, etc.; or
- If there is no one willing or able to serve, a Public Administrator employed by the County may be appointed.
The above-mentioned people are not automatically chosen to be Administrator. The Surrogate’s Court has a very lengthy process that requires a Petition for Letters of Administration and other accompanying legal documents to be prepared, filed with the Court and reviewed by the Court before appointing someone as Administrator.
Please note that if you have a unmarried partner or a stepchild, they do NOT have priority to serve as Administrator and the administration of your estate will be controlled by those mentioned above.
Which Assets Are Controlled by Intestacy Laws?
Assets that are in the decedent’s individual name alone are controlled by the laws referenced above. Meaning assets with named beneficiaries, such as life insurance policies and retirement accounts, pass directly to the designated beneficiary and do not require Court approval. Similarly, jointly owned property, such as bank accounts and real property, transfer automatically to the surviving owner by operation of law.
Common Problems When There Is No Will

Dying without a Will can create significant emotional and financial burdens for surviving family members and loved ones. We frequently see disputes arise over who should be appointed as Administrator, and the distribution of assets required by NY law often fails to reflect the decedent’s actual wishes. As a result, loved ones may feel that the outcome is unfair or inconsistent with what the decedent would have actually wanted.
Intestacy can also produce particularly harsh results for certain individuals. For example, unmarried partners and stepchildren, despite having shared close and meaningful relationships with the decedent, have no inheritance rights under the intestacy laws and will receive nothing from the estate. In addition, the Court imposes strict procedural requirements in many cases, including the appointment of a GAL whenever a minor or legally incapacitated individual has an interest in the estate. These requirements, along with numerous other potential complications, can significantly increase the time, expense, and complexity of the estate administration process.
In most cases, administering an intestate estate is more time-consuming, more costly, and more burdensome than administering an estate pursuant to a properly prepared estate plan. As a result, loved ones are often forced to endure additional delays, court involvement, and expenses simply to gain access to assets that could have been transferred more efficiently through proper estate planning.
Protecting your Family, Assets and Legacy: Why Estate Planning Matters
Contrary to popular belief, estate planning is not just for the wealthy. Regardless of the size of your estate, a properly prepared estate plan, consisting of both a Will and Trust, allows you to determine who receives your property, nominate the individuals responsible for administering your estate or trust, provide for minor or incapacitated beneficiaries, make specific gifts to family, friends, or charities, address blended family concerns, and minimize the potential for future disputes.
Most importantly, an estate plan ensures that your wishes, rather than New York’s default intestacy laws, govern the disposition of your assets. By planning ahead, you can help avoid unnecessary Court involvement, reduce administrative expenses and attorney fees, preserve more of your estate for your loved ones, and spare your family from the delays, uncertainty, and conflict that often accompany an intestate estate.
While no one enjoys contemplating their own mortality, failing to plan can leave important decisions in the hands of the State of New York and the Surrogate’s Court. Taking the time to create a comprehensive estate plan provides peace of mind, protects those you care about most, and helps ensure that your legacy is carried out according to your intentions. Contact our experienced estate planning attorneys to discuss your goals and learn how we can help protect your assets and your loved ones.





